I want to share with you some of the books that helped me structure my knowledge.
I have to remind you (if it isn’t obvious at this point in the history of the Internet) that the following links, and other Amazon links on my site, are affiliate links. I am legally required to tell you that “As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.” In reality, this means I may earn huge commissions –probably enough to buy multiple mansions where I throw secret luxury orgy parties with celebrities wearing masks, so I’m very biased to recommend you these products.
In all honestly, I love these books, and I wanted to put out a page where I can share some of the cornerstone ideas that have helped me shape my life how I prefer. That is why I recommend them to you. And almost ironically, here’s one of these beliefs: an idea in your mind is just potential unless you take action on it. Reading books has changed my life, but only because I have been willing to turn those ideas into reality when doing that felt like the next logical step.
So, the following books will help you release your limiting beliefs, and achieve a state of consciousness that will make attracting women natural for you. I’ll explain why:
Book
Why it is useful
Self-Discipline in 10 days: How To Go From Thinking to Doing
You may be surprised that my first recommendation is not a book on dating. This is a book on life. Through my years of research, I’ve found that self-discipline is the most valuable skill of all. Why? Because it’s the one that enables you to learn and EXECUTE all other skills. Imagine for a second that today, right now, you decide you want to achieve X goal, and that with absolute, 100% certainty, you know you’re going to get there. How is that possible? Thanks to the power of self-discipline. This book was a recent discovery, and a game-changer for the rest of my life. What are you waiting for?
A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the World’s Largest Experiment Reveals About Human Desire
A Billion Wicked Thoughts is the world’s largest analysis (based on experience) of sexual desire. If you want to know how your attraction toward women works, and what ‘she’ ACTUALLY finds attractive in you, you must read this book. It’s a bit long but there’s no pointless filling, from start to finish you’ll find golden nuggets that will help you understand women and focus on what you really should in order to attract them. You’ll gain knowledge that will give you huge confidence when dealing with situations in which you don’t know exactly what to do.
Ask and It Is Given: Learning to Manifest Your Desires
I guess it was meant to be that I named this site The Core of Attraction and I ended up discovering the Law of Attraction 😄. I really had no idea back when I started this site.
I went through a process of curiosity → to “this is nuts”→ to ” ok, this is interesting but there are better approaches”→ to “this is the most useful information on the entire planet”. This book will help you release all of your negative and limiting beliefs, and get to know your own power to mold, shape, and create your reality 100%, as you please. That is, yes, including any relationships you desire, in the way you desire.
The Astonishing Power of Emotions: Let Your Feelings Be Your Guide
This book is from the same authors as Ask and It Is Given, and it doesn’t contain any new revolutionary information that the other one doesn’t have.(BTW, I have read all of their books.)
There is a basic teaching and then many examples of “normal” situations that anyone could find himself in. Those examples serve as a starting point to really understand what their teachings are all about. This book will show you how easy it is to actually put the principle that you create your reality to work in a natural way that you will implement in your day-to-day. So, in that practical sense, it also was revolutionary to me, and it will be very useful to you.
The Selfish Gene: 40th Anniversary Edition (Oxford Landmark Science)
The Selfish Gene is a book on evolutionary biology that explains where we come from as human beings. It doesn’t specifically talk about male-female relationships among humans, but it was very important for me because it gave me A LOT of perspective and focus on what’s important in life, understanding what are we doing here on Earth, and where are we heading toward. You may not need it, but if you’re somewhat “lost” or want to know yourself deep down, this is a must-have.
How to Win Friends & Influence People
This is also a classic on human relationships, with some pretty basic information about how to successfully deal with people in multiple situations, filled with examples and explained very clearly. It’s not focused on seduction either, but its teachings will make you much more sociable and successful among any group of people, a skill that’s awfully important to get women in your life.
The Fear of (Escape from) Freedom
The Fear of Freedom is a book that not only you and I, but every person on this planet should read. You’ll find a deep analysis of how fear stops you from being the awesome man you can be, how to overcome it, and why most people in modern societies let that negative emotion control their lives. This book is around 80 years old but its teachings are even more important than the day it was written. If you want to be in that little portion of society that lives a life of freedom and love, you absolutely need this book.
The Millionaire Fastlane: Crack the Code to Wealth and Live Rich for a Lifetime
What? A book about how to become rich? Okay, you don’t need this book to get women. I just want to recommend it to you because indirectly, your goals in life are very important to attract a girl, and most importantly, to your happiness. Whether you’re interested in starting a successful business, investing, and other moneymaking tactics or not, this book will open your mind and will help you dramatically define your goals in life.
The End of Overeating: Taking Control of the Insatiable American Appetite
This is the same as with the previous book. You don’t need it to get women, but health is very important and obesity has become the most common chronic disease in modern society. As you know, I was pretty fat back then, and this book was critical to my understanding of how my body and mind work to free myself from the food addiction vicious cycle.
There are obviously many more books that I could recommend, but after having read A LOT, I think those are the most important ones because they establish a solid foundation to then read whatever you want and experiment and learn on your own.
However, as you probably already know me a little, I’m from Spain an the fact is, there are two books that I also consider very important to my growth. The problem is they’re written in Spanish. So email me if you’re confident enough to read in that language. But you can still get the core knowledge of those books because obviously, I applied that knowledge to create The Core of Attraction. Subcribe now if you haven’t to get that useful knowledge right away.
A Tip on Reading Books, Blogs, Taking Courses, etc.
I recommend you get material to improve specific gaps in your progress. With The Core of Attraction you have the overall system that explains attraction at all levels.
But then, let’s say you have an issue with your body language. Then it’ll be very wise of you to grab and read a good book on that topic and of course, take action and apply it. You get the idea.
Start by applying the system, then work on the loose ends in order to tight everything up.
Don’t hesitate to drop me an email and let me know if you find any obstacle, and we’ll figure out the best way to solve it.
Back to reading!