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How to Make a Girl Horny (Behavior 3)

Categories: Relationships, Dating, Love

how to make a girl horny

UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

This is the third and last of a series of posts that covers The Three Behaviors to attract girls:

  1. Behavior 1 —Confidence. The 11 Traits of The Alpha Male.
  2. Behavior 2 —Protection. How to Attract Women by Being Protective.
  3. Behavior 3 —Making her feel sexually desired.

In my last post I mentioned that the friendzone is typically caused by too much Behavior 2. The other cause of being friendzoned is not showing enough Behavior 3. This last behavior is all about making her feel sexually desired at the right time.

This post isn’t about making her feel sexually desired for the sake of it, or just to turn her on. It’s about making her feel sexually desired because that will make her attracted to you.

At the first levels of intimacy, Behavior 3 will be light comments on her beauty or a stare. At higher levels, making her feel sexually desired will be making her horny. Let’s dive in.

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How to Attract Women by Being Protective (Behavior 2)

Categories: Relationships, Dating, Love

how to attract women

UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

This is the second of a series of posts that covers The Three Behaviors to attract girls:

  1. Behavior 1 —Confidence. The 11 Traits of The Alpha Male.
  2. Behavior 2 —Protection.
  3. Behavior 3 —Making her feel desired. How to Make a Girl Horny.

As part of The Core of Attraction framework to attract women, you know you should be protective, be romantic and take care of a woman to make her attracted to you. Most guys end up friendzoned because they do this too much.

In this post we’ll cover what is Behavior 2 —Protection and exactly when to show it and when not to.

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The 11 Traits of The Alpha Male (Behavior 1)

Categories: Relationships, Dating, Love

how to be an alpha male

UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

What is the default behavior you must have to attract girls? The traits of the alpha male are attractive to women because they bring you success in life.

But first, don’t obsess with it. The alpha-beta distinction as a 1-0 state is false. There is no red-pill v. blue-pill. Because attraction is not black or white. There are a lot of shades of grey in-between.

You choose how much alpha you want to be by doing certain things instead of other things.

Most men are average, they do some things right and some things wrong. Then there’s the overthinksheep who has a terrible mindset and does almost everything wrong. Then there are magnetic guys who attract girls’ eyeballs without effort.

You can go from zero to magnetic beast, by learning what makes you attractive. So, do you want to learn how to be an alpha male that attract girls naturally?

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How to Talk to Girls —Infographic

Categories: Relationships, Dating, Love

UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

Do you want to always remember how to talk to girls without effort? I’ve already covered the basics in many posts, so I wanted to create a cool infographic for you to find a reference anywhere you spot a hot girl!

I love infographics. Maybe I suck at it but I wanted to put such an interesting topic into an image. I think I did a decent job! (Your feedback is appreciated.)

This is everything you need to attract girls just by talking into a 1000×3692 px picture!

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Are You Neglecting These 4 Communication Channels?

Categories: Relationships, Dating, Love

UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

What do you focus on when you talk to girls? When I was a kissless virgin, I tried to find the perfect words so girls could be amazed by me.

That’s not a bad thing to do. Although now I don’t care about particular results I still always try to improve my communication.

The problem was, I was missing out on many communication channels that take place. You and I perceive them when you listen to others. You do it subconsciously. So why do we neglect them when it is us who speak?

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You Attract Women by Being Emotionally Intelligent

Categories: Relationships, Dating, Love

emotionally intelligent

UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

I remember many conversations in my teen years where girls seemed to get mad at me. Or I was so frustrated by the girls’ reactions that I would get mad. I had many great times but I also would get pissed off by my lack of control when talking to girls.

Having that lack of control not only is an attraction killer for girls. You lose motivation to approach and start talking to girls you like because you can’t expect a good outcome. You don’t have high-energy and the positive confident attitude that attracts women naturally.

Here, on The Core of Attraction you’re getting everything you need to attract women naturally, but today I want to focus on a very important aspect to better understand women.

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