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Are You Neglecting These 4 Communication Channels?

Categories: Relationships, Dating, Love

UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

What do you focus on when you talk to girls? When I was a kissless virgin, I tried to find the perfect words so girls could be amazed by me.

That’s not a bad thing to do. Although now I don’t care about particular results I still always try to improve my communication.

The problem was, I was missing out on many communication channels that take place. You and I perceive them when you listen to others. You do it subconsciously. So why do we neglect them when it is us who speak?

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You Attract Women by Being Emotionally Intelligent

Categories: Relationships, Dating, Love

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UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

I remember many conversations in my teen years where girls seemed to get mad at me. Or I was so frustrated by the girls’ reactions that I would get mad. I had many great times but I also would get pissed off by my lack of control when talking to girls.

Having that lack of control not only is an attraction killer for girls. You lose motivation to approach and start talking to girls you like because you can’t expect a good outcome. You don’t have high-energy and the positive confident attitude that attracts women naturally.

Here, on The Core of Attraction you’re getting everything you need to attract women naturally, but today I want to focus on a very important aspect to better understand women.

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What Is Self-Discipline and How it Will Change Your Life

Categories: Personal Development and Success

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UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

For years I have struggled with reaching my goals. One of my main problems was that I tried to change many things at once. I once was an extrovert athletic teenager that naturally attracted girls’ attention. But because of many reasons I turned into a fat kissless virgin that almost turned into an complete introvert.

I tried many approaches to change that and revert back to the person I knew I had in me…

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The Very Best Dating Advice for Men from February 2015

Categories: Relationships, Dating, Love

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UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

On February I worked really hard to give you awesome detailed tutorials like How to Get a Girlfriend which covers the basics for you to start taking action and attracting girls.

The visits went from low-double-digits daily to low-triple-digits daily which is awesome, and I’m truly thankful to see that all this work to share my knowledge is actually useful for you.

As a thank you, I prepared sort of a roundup with a few highlights in the dating scene, to open your mind, use some external advice and also have a little fun!

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Virgin in College

Categories: Relationships, Dating, Love

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UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

Are you a man, still a virgin in college, and don’t know what to do about it? When I started college, especially the first few years, I was (of course, a kissless virgin, but also) an introvert who felt incapable of having normal relationships with girls I liked.

When it was time to go out with friends, meet new people and expand my social circle, I almost always looked for excuses. Or decided to just hang out with friends that had some other geekier plan.

I looked at the life others had, they seemed to have a blast. Partying, kissing, getting to X base, telling sex stories…

I didn’t envy them, because that life was so alien that I didn’t even know how to start improving my social skills so I could have a nice girlfriend, have sex, have the best time with my friends, be relaxed, and charge my batteries to get the best grades.

Luckily now I can give you the answer to stop being a virgin in college.

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How to Overcome Fear and Attract Girls Easily

Categories: Relationships, Dating, Love

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UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

If you’ve read my key articles such as how to get a girlfriend, how to talk to girls, master conversations or the core of attraction, you already should know everything you need to start attracting women and get a girlfriend soon.

But I know from personal experience that it takes more than that.

I know what it is to have the knowledge but not the courage to apply it.

The first time I explained a rough version of The Core of Attraction to a friend, he was blown away. We were studying in Paris at the time so we decided to go to Le Louvre, the huge museum, to hit on girls and put the system to test.

We were very motivated because of the power of the system, but we couldn’t do shit with it. We were so shy that we approached 6 different women in 4 hours… Yeah. What was lacking then?

After years of trial-and-error, I’m ready to give you the key actions you must take now to start attracting girls without obstacles in just a few weeks. You’ll have a complete understanding of what to do and what not to do. Here’s how.

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