how to talk to girls

How to Approach a Girl You Like

August 7, 2015 Categories: Guides & How-To's

How to finally approach that girl you like? Is it at school, at work or at the gym? Is it only for sex? Is she your crush? How to approach her in order to make a good impression so she becomes attracted to you?

How to make that first (or almost first) move?

Every situation requires a different approach. A different mindset to interact with her. If you want to know how to approach a girl effectively, in this post we’ll see what to do in all those different situations.

This is not just a list of the most common situations. You know I’m all about the core knowledge of things. We’ll understand the mindset behind approaching women so you always know what to do —in any situation. Let’s dive into it.

How to Talk to Girls —Infographic

March 13, 2015 Categories: Infographics

Do you want to always remember how to talk to girls without effort? I’ve already covered the basics in many posts, so I wanted to create a cool infographic for you to find a reference anywhere you spot a hot girl!

I love infographics. Maybe I suck at it but I wanted to put such an interesting topic into an image. I think I did a decent job! (Your feedback is appreciated.)

This is everything you need to attract girls just by talking into a 1000×3692 px picture!

Are You Neglecting These 4 Communication Channels?

March 11, 2015 Categories: Guides & How-To's

What do you focus on when you talk to girls? When I was a kissless virgin, I tried to find the perfect words so girls could be amazed by me.

That’s not a bad thing to do. Although now I don’t care about particular results I still always try to improve my communication.

The problem was, I was missing out on many communication channels that take place. You and I perceive them when you listen to others. You do it subconsciously. So why do we neglect them when it is us who speak?

You Attract Girls by Being Emotionally Intelligent

March 9, 2015 Categories: Mindset

I remember many conversations in my teen years where girls seemed to get mad at me. Or I was so frustrated by the girls’ reactions that I would get mad. I had many great times but I also would get pissed off by my lack of control when talking to girls.

Having that lack of control not only is an attraction killer for girls. You lose motivation to approach and start talking to girls you like because you can’t expect a good outcome. You don’t have high-energy and the positive confident attitude that attract girls naturally.

Here in The Core of Attraction you’re getting everything you need to attract girls naturally, but today I want to focus on a very important aspect to better understand women.

How to Make Her Fall in Love: The 36 Questions

March 4, 2015 Categories: Guides & How-To's

Last Monday we reviewed the main topics to talk about with a girl. It was important because I highlighted the different topics we can talk about depending on the intimacy with the girl. Our goal, obviously, is to level up the intimacy with her. But I said what we’ll be covering today is powerful stuff.

Not only it will help you ramp up the intimacy with her at lightning speed. You will have a huge list of topics to talk about with her that make her much more likely to develop feelings for you.

A few researchers lead by Arthur Aron figured out 36 questions that accelerate the intimacy between two people (original paper). It starts with:

“A practical methodology is presented for creating closeness in an experimental context.”

These 36 questions are a way to supercharge the closeness with a person.

Best Topics to Talk About With a Girl

March 2, 2015 Categories: Guides & How-To's

Do you run out of topics to talk about with a girl you like? You don’t even know how to start? Let’s review the powerful basic ideas to make your conversation flow naturally, have fun, and make her attracted to you.