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How to Talk to Girls —Infographic

Categories: Relationships, Dating, Love

UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

Do you want to always remember how to talk to girls without effort? I’ve already covered the basics in many posts, so I wanted to create a cool infographic for you to find a reference anywhere you spot a hot girl!

I love infographics. Maybe I suck at it but I wanted to put such an interesting topic into an image. I think I did a decent job! (Your feedback is appreciated.)

This is everything you need to attract girls just by talking into a 1000×3692 px picture!

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Are You Neglecting These 4 Communication Channels?

Categories: Relationships, Dating, Love

UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

What do you focus on when you talk to girls? When I was a kissless virgin, I tried to find the perfect words so girls could be amazed by me.

That’s not a bad thing to do. Although now I don’t care about particular results I still always try to improve my communication.

The problem was, I was missing out on many communication channels that take place. You and I perceive them when you listen to others. You do it subconsciously. So why do we neglect them when it is us who speak?

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You Attract Women by Being Emotionally Intelligent

Categories: Relationships, Dating, Love

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UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

I remember many conversations in my teen years where girls seemed to get mad at me. Or I was so frustrated by the girls’ reactions that I would get mad. I had many great times but I also would get pissed off by my lack of control when talking to girls.

Having that lack of control not only is an attraction killer for girls. You lose motivation to approach and start talking to girls you like because you can’t expect a good outcome. You don’t have high-energy and the positive confident attitude that attracts women naturally.

Here, on The Core of Attraction you’re getting everything you need to attract women naturally, but today I want to focus on a very important aspect to better understand women.

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How to Make Her Fall in Love: The 36 Questions

Categories: Relationships, Dating, Love

how to make her fall in love

UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

Last Monday we reviewed the main topics to talk about with a girl. It was important because I highlighted the different topics we can talk about depending on the intimacy with the girl. Our goal, obviously, is to level up the intimacy with her. But I said what we’ll be covering today is powerful stuff.

Not only it will help you ramp up the intimacy with her at lightning speed. You will have a huge list of topics to talk about with her that make her much more likely to develop feelings for you.

A few researchers lead by Arthur Aron figured out 36 questions that accelerate the intimacy between two people (original paper). It starts with:

“A practical methodology is presented for creating closeness in an experimental context.”

These 36 questions are a way to supercharge the closeness with a person.

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Best Topics to Talk About With a Girl

Categories: Relationships, Dating, Love

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UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

Do you run out of topics to talk about with a girl you like? You don’t even know how to start? Let’s review the powerful basic ideas to make your conversation flow naturally, have fun, and make her attracted to you.

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The 2 Easy Skills that Will Make You a Conversation Master

Categories: Personal Development and Success

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UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

Want to know how I manage to pull off long interesting conversations with the hottest girls? Want to know the skills I used to keep a conversation alive for 2+ hours with a gorgeous curvy French model I hooked up with? Consider that French isn’t even my primary language.

What makes people want to talk to certain people? How do they get other people to open to them and tell personal stuff?

It isn’t humor, or a deep mindset or anything like that. It’s just two conversation skills. So easy that you’re using them already, unconsciously. So you can start applying them right away after you finish reading this post. And it won’t only help you with your dating and love life. This simple concept will explode your social skills, your network, your career…

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