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You Attract Women by Being Emotionally Intelligent

March 9, 2015 Categories: Relationships, Dating, Love

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UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

I remember many conversations in my teen years where girls seemed to get mad at me. Or I was so frustrated by the girls’ reactions that I would get mad. I had many great times but I also would get pissed off by my lack of control when talking to girls.

Having that lack of control not only is an attraction killer for girls. You lose motivation to approach and start talking to girls you like because you can’t expect a good outcome. You don’t have high-energy and the positive confident attitude that attracts women naturally.

Here, on The Core of Attraction you’re getting everything you need to attract women naturally, but today I want to focus on a very important aspect to better understand women.

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Tagged With: conversation, dating advice for men, how to talk to girls, personal growth, success in life

How to Make Her Fall in Love: The 36 Questions

March 4, 2015 Categories: Relationships, Dating, Love

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UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

Last Monday we reviewed the main topics to talk about with a girl. It was important because I highlighted the different topics we can talk about depending on the intimacy with the girl. Our goal, obviously, is to level up the intimacy with her. But I said what we’ll be covering today is powerful stuff.

Not only it will help you ramp up the intimacy with her at lightning speed. You will have a huge list of topics to talk about with her that make her much more likely to develop feelings for you.

A few researchers lead by Arthur Aron figured out 36 questions that accelerate the intimacy between two people (original paper). It starts with:

“A practical methodology is presented for creating closeness in an experimental context.”

These 36 questions are a way to supercharge the closeness with a person.

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Tagged With: conversation, dating advice for men, how to attract women, how to make her fall in love, how to talk to girls

Best Topics to Talk About With a Girl

March 2, 2015 Categories: Relationships, Dating, Love

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UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

Do you run out of topics to talk about with a girl you like? You don’t even know how to start? Let’s review the powerful basic ideas to make your conversation flow naturally, have fun, and make her attracted to you.

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Tagged With: conversation, dating tips, how to attract women, how to talk to girls

The Very Best Dating Advice for Men from February 2015

February 27, 2015 Categories: Relationships, Dating, Love

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UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

On February I worked really hard to give you awesome detailed tutorials like How to Get a Girlfriend which covers the basics for you to start taking action and attracting girls.

The visits went from low-double-digits daily to low-triple-digits daily which is awesome, and I’m truly thankful to see that all this work to share my knowledge is actually useful for you.

As a thank you, I prepared sort of a roundup with a few highlights in the dating scene, to open your mind, use some external advice and also have a little fun!

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Tagged With: dating advice for men, dating tips, personal growth

Virgin in College

February 25, 2015 Categories: Relationships, Dating, Love

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UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

Are you a man, still a virgin in college, and don’t know what to do about it? When I started college, especially the first few years, I was (of course, a kissless virgin, but also) an introvert who felt incapable of having normal relationships with girls I liked.

When it was time to go out with friends, meet new people and expand my social circle, I almost always looked for excuses. Or decided to just hang out with friends that had some other geekier plan.

I looked at the life others had, they seemed to have a blast. Partying, kissing, getting to X base, telling sex stories…

I didn’t envy them, because that life was so alien that I didn’t even know how to start improving my social skills so I could have a nice girlfriend, have sex, have the best time with my friends, be relaxed, and charge my batteries to get the best grades.

Luckily now I can give you the answer to stop being a virgin in college.

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Tagged With: dating advice for men, how to lose virginity men, personal growth, success in life

Does She Like Me? Quiz

February 23, 2015 Categories: Relationships, Dating, Love

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UPDATE: this is an old article. It doesn't reflect my current way of thinking (you can read more about it here). But that doesn't mean there is no value in it! It can still be useful to you, like it was helpful to me at some point. Some corrections have been made, but not enough to change its original essence. So, if you find it useful, then use it!

Do you wonder if the girl you like is giving you signs that she’s interested in you?

Here’s a quiz with the 25 subtle things she does that will tell you if she has a crush on you so you can make a move on her. If she scores 3 or more, you should take your relationship to the next level of intimacy.

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Tagged With: dating tips, sexual behavior

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