Changing a habit can get really hard. Sometimes it seems rooted so deeply that changing seems impossible. And what’s even worse, our mind gets so narrowed into the problem that we can easily lose sight of a broader understanding of the situation.
That is why I highly recommend you watch this TED video:
You see her every day. She’s hot. She’s pretty. She’s gorgeous. Very nice to you. You don’t really know if she likes you, but you hope she did. You may think you want her just for sex. Or you’re in love with her. You even joked around with your friends about you kinda sorta liking her…
But no matter the case, deep inside you’re constantly thinking about her, every day.
She’s your crush.
I know it firsthand. I even hate to remember this. For instance, I remember one evening I spent like 4 hours on bed, looking at the ceiling, thinking the best way to talk to that girl who looked at me so intensely.
In this post I’m going to show you step-by-step what you need to do to attract her and level up with her.
But also, I’m going to tell you an uncomfortable truth that most guys don’t want to hear.
Ironically, knowing this truth will put you in the position to attract her.
How to finally approach that girl you like? Is it at school, at work or at the gym? Is it only for sex? Is she your crush? How to approach her in order to make a good impression so she becomes attracted to you?
How to make that first (or almost first) move?
Every situation requires a different approach. A different mindset to interact with her. If you want to know how to approach a girl effectively, in this post we’ll see what to do in all those different situations.
This is not just a list of the most common situations. You know I’m all about the core knowledge of things. We’ll understand the mindset behind approaching women so you always know what to do —in any situation. Let’s dive into it.
In my last post I mentioned that the friendzone is typically caused by too much Behavior 2. The other cause of being friendzoned is not showing enough Behavior 3. This last behavior is all about making her feel sexually desired at the right time.
This post isn’t about making her feel sexually desired for the sake of it, or just to turn her on. It’s about making her feel sexually desired because that will make her attracted to you.
At the first levels of intimacy, Behavior 3 will be light comments on her beauty or a stare. At higher levels, making her feel sexually desired will be making her horny. Let’s dive in.